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03-01-15: A 2015 Interview with William Ury

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"I could see what silliness was going on while it was happening..."
— William Ury

Even though he wrote the book 'Getting to Yes With Yourself: And Other Worthy Opponents,' William Ury does not strike you as brusquely overly-confident. He's a man who measures every situation as he arrives in it. He's always friendly and relaxed. He's just there and when you meet him, he inspires confidence.

That sense of presence, that sense of actually listening, made our conversation particularly fun. We spoke at KUSP on a sunny weekday morning, and recorded the interview not in the studio, but in a large conference room with a skylight. There'd a metaphor there that I won't pursue too closely, but in retrospect, it all seemed o appropriate.

Going in, I thought I had a sense of what I was going to talk to him about, a very specific sense and even set of questions. But I found out early I was going to have to change my tack. Not surprisingly, I found myself taking the advice in the book to talk to the author bout the book. it worked like a charm, an I'm still using it in subsequent interviews. When hyou speak to him, as well as when you read his book, you can see why Ury is considered the word's best international negotiator.

He and I did touch on his time with Hugo Chavez. He spins a hell of a story, and in the process his process of negotiation is re-directed inward to the readers of his books. Our conversation stands as a great way into the book and elucidates some of the core concepts for those who have read the book.

You can negotiate your way to the audio interview, uncut (just about an hour long) by following this link to the MP3 audio file.




03-01-15 UPDATE: Podcast Update: Time to Read Episode 198: William Ury 'Getting to Yes With Yourself And Other Worthy Opponents'

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Here's the one-hundred ninety-eighth episode of my series of podcasts, which I'm calling Time to Read, or when I warn the writer in advance, the lightning round. This is turning out to be really fun, and especially since I get to take on my game show host persona.

This week, I'm way behind, but who knows what the hell might happen. I am hoping to get back up and stumbling. I have lots of great books in the hopper to review and lots of great interviews to podcast.

The podcasts/radio broadcasts will be of books worth your valuable reading time. I'll try to keep the reports under four minutes, for a radio-friendly format. If you want to run them on your show or podcast, let me know.

My hope is that in under four minutes I can offer readers a concise review and an opportunity to hear the author read from or speak about the work. I'm hoping to offer a new one every week.

The one-hundred ninety-eighth episode is a look at William Ury and 'Getting to Yes With Yourself And Other Worthy Opponents.'

Here's a link to the MP3 audio file of Time to Read, Episode 198: William Ury, 'Getting to Yes With Yourself And Other Worthy Opponents.'



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03-01-15: Commentary : William Ury on Getting to Yes with Yourself: And Other Worthy Opponents : To the BATNA, Robin!

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Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 198: William Ury : Getting to Yes with Yourself: And Other Worthy Opponents

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Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 197: Jennifer Senior : All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood

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Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 196: Stewart O'Nan : West of Sunset

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Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 195: Armistead Maupin : The Days of Anna Madrigal

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Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 193: Jake Halpern : Bad Paper: Chasing Debt from Wall Street to the Underworld

01-19-15: Commentary : David Shields and Caleb Powell Assert 'I Think You're Totally Wrong' : The Power to Bicker

Agony Column Podcast News Report : A 2015 Interview with David Shields and Caleb Powell : "I read no book reviews any more; the level of discussion is really pedestrian." David Shields "I'm just saying it's a conflict of interest!" Caleb Powell

Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 192: David Shields and Caleb Powell : I Think You're Totally Wrong

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Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 191: Charles Todd : A Fine Summer's Day

01-13-15: Commentary : Rosalie Parker Unearths 'The Old Knowledge' : The New Old World

Agony Column Podcast News Report : A 2014 Interview with Ray Russell and Rosalie Parker : "I thought I'd write something for fun.." Ray Russell "..there was a side of me of that was interested in the strangeness..." Ros Parker

01-12-15: Commentary : Richard Ford 'Let Me Be Frank with You' : The Default Years

Agony Column Podcast News Report : A 2014 Interview with Richard Ford : "...most of our politicians are morons..."

Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 190: Richard Ford : Let Me Be Frank with You

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Agony Column Podcast News Report : A 2014 Interview with Bessel van der Kolk : "...being able to see what happens in the brain really helps us to understand certain things..."

Agony Column Podcast News Report UPDATE: Time to Read Episode 189: Bessel van der Kolk : The Body Keeps the Score

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